You Can Have Your Hula Pie and Eat it Too!
Last year when we got married in Hawaii, we met an older lesbian couple who was staying at the same resort where we were. We got married by the water at the resort, and because we had such a lively, dancing crew, most of the resort had seen at least some of our wedding festivities. The day after the wedding, the couple asked us if we were the couple who was married the night before. We talked about the wedding, asked them about their story, what their secret to marital bliss was, and chatted for a bit. A few weeks ago, we went back to Hawaii to celebrate our anniversary. Much to our surprise, the same couple was at the resort at the same time as us again! We said hello and reminded them of the year before. We asked them how often they went to Kauai, and they told us they come every year, staying for about a month (!!!). We asked them more about marriage this time. They told us the biggest key was communication (I knew it!). I’m guessing they’re in their 70s, and these ladies have...